Inherent worth is the representation of the reality of your existence. It reveals the quality that is in line with the nature of your existence and this is an unquestionable determinant of what you are. As the name implies, inherent value is a quality that guarantees the nature of a thing, in and of itself. Without it, a thing cannot be said to be unarguably what it is. For example: Human beings are inherently valuable.
When you understand the reality of the nature of a thing, you relate with or approach it in like manner. Do you approach ice believing it’s hot?
Below are signs that reveal you have inherent worth.
#4 You Are Needed Here
For the mere reason of your existence, it is a signification that you are needed here. This comes with being born or your entrant into the world. It is, because of the endless potential that exists within you. No one is a product of chance. Everyone, male and female, exist because they have a role to play. If you do not see it, it is not because the reality of your human nature is different. Rather the reason leans towards the mitigating factors within- inaccurate perspective- and around you- environmental factors- that prevents you from seeing your true self.
However, as with everything else that is artificial, your inaccurate perspective does not belong anywhere with nature. Therefore, it has a better chance at withering away if you put in the proper work. This would enable you to accurately see the reality of your nature and embrace it accordingly.
#3 You Are Acceptable
Many people live with the inaccurate perception about the nature of feelings and self. Such perception mitigates against seeing the accurate reality of the nature of yourself. With such, you view yourself from the lens of someone who has no value in themselves and seek to cling to others for acceptance. This perspective is destructive and you should work to eliminate it. You are wanted and acceptable for being a human being at all. It is the reality of the nature of your being.
Even though people reject you or your opinion. It does not translate to mean that you lack value in yourself. No human being does. It is not in the nature of anyone either. People reserve the free will to make their choices as it relates to you, however, their choices says more about them than they speak about you. For what it’s worth, you also possess the same amount of free will.
#2 You Are Someone Worthy
Sometimes you confuse the mistakes you make to directly mean that they are unworthy of any good thing. That is shame. Such perception keeps you from being able to make amends, while you remain bucked down because of shame. Work to be able to separate your mistakes from the nature of your reality.The reality of the nature of your being is that you are worthy. If it were not so, you will not be in existence.
Your mistakes do not define you. What defines you is your ability to own up to them or not. In other words, your worth is dependent on your acknowledgement or not. These mistakes in themselves, do not mean you are inherently defective. Rather, it presents you as human who is liable to err. Inherent value is something every human being has just for being born. It would not have been made possible if you are not born.
#1 You Are The Director Of Your Life
When others believe in you more than you believe in yourself, there are chances you can miss your track because you would unconsciously depend on them for affirmation.
Imagine you are given a project to direct. You have the blue print, but you ‘ld need the help of some other people to bring it to fruition. You go out to get these people on ground. However, upon the assumption of this project, you are not available to provide the blue print.
The people who believe in you are there to support you, not to lead the way. You hold the blue print of your life. It is only human beings that can be trusted with this much power. When you leave it up to other people, they can well-meaningfully twist it according to their own leaning and understanding. This would enable the skewing of your plot and paths. Thereby, leading you to miss your path. Listen to yourself and understand that regardless of what goes on around you, you are what you are.
It is sobering to see what unfulfilled potential you have, while you make relentless effort to be another’s copy. Your inherent worth is what makes you, you. You have your space to fill. Focus on it, so other people can get the benefit of your existence. No one can replace another in a function. When you provide your authentic spice, you prepare a delicacy that can last the world a lifetime.